I don’t know if I’m a nice person

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    • #1648
      Meow
        @meow

        I’m asking because I doubt myself. Sometimes, I have different opinions and express them a bit harshly, especially when I’m in a bad mood, and I feel bad afterward. Now, I’m trying to be nicer when sharing my opinions, but I still worry that I come across as annoying.

        I worry that I’m annoying everyone and losing friends, even though people say I’m a good person. But I can’t shake the feeling that I don’t deserve them. Maybe it’s just my low self-esteem and paranoia, but I genuinely feel annoying and sometimes stupid. It makes me sad.

        Today, I’m in a bad mood, so maybe I’m being too hard on myself. I hope when I feel better, I’ll see things differently. I don’t know if it’s just my mood or if I really am a bad person.

      • #1649
        Orangeade
          @orangeade

          I think bad people don’t worry about being bad; they either don’t care or convince themselves they’re good and others are bad. From your post, a few things stand out to me. First, you care about others’ thoughts and feelings, which shows goodness.

          We all have tough moments when we speak harshly, and that’s okay. Forgive yourself for being human! Although you might feel it more harshly than the people you speak to do.

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        • #1651
          Weeny
            @weeny

            you are a lovely, kind person. It could be that we are more negative when we’re depressed.
            But please don’t doubt that you are good. You are very good, kind, caring, and supportive. :❤️:

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