I really can’t tell whether i am overthinking or judging the situation correctly. And i have lost friendships and other possible bonds .i can’t differentiate between what is geniune and what is a game being played. It haunts me day and night .i want this to stop ,but can’t find a way to do so . Got help ,qnd they told me to stop overthinking and trust my instincts ,but HOW TO DO THAT .i have no idea..need help