Is life supposed to be this hard?

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    • #1597
      Raven
        @raven

        Just seems like the more I try the worse I have it. I have nobody to talk to about the stuff I go through, nobody cares at all.

        I just get yelled at and judged. It’s really not fair. The hand I’ve been dealt in life could not be any more awful.

        I’ve been trying to turn things around for some time I just freaking can’t…

      • #1598
        shyviolet
          @shyviolet

          I totally get that. It feels like every time I make progress something happens that tears it down. And then the times I try to bring up how I’m feeling I’m getting shot down or yelled at or whatever. It’s frustrating and it’s so fucking hard to keep going sometimes

        • #1599
          Raven
            @raven

            @shyviolet Yeah, it’s like the people I try and explain stuff to in real life are clueless like I’m speaking alien or something. The only person I should have to explain myself to is me, but me is broken. Ugh.

          • #1600
            shyviolet
              @shyviolet

              I get that, it’s like no matter how I explain it no one understands how I truly feel, we’ll I guess people without mental problems lol. It’s hard to explain to anyone, and then trying to understand what my brain is telling me is almost harder

            • #1927
              Alexg
                @alexg

                I have absolutely been there. I had a rough life at home and school growing up and thought I would never get out, never find people who understand me, and never have a life I enjoy. There were so many things I missed out on because people weren’t willing to listen to me and help me when I needed it. I have both mental health issues and physical disabilities, so I faced issues getting help and understanding both on the mental and physical front, and a lot of my serious medical conditions were chalked up to mental health problems by doctors who wouldn’t listen. With that being said, I am now in college. My life has improved significantly in spite of the multitude of issues I have had since starting college. Now that I have more independence, I feel like I am so much more in control of my life and what I am doing with it. Don’t get me wrong, there are certainly days when I feel helpless and like nothing will ever improve, but they are so much less frequent than when I was in high school and living at home full time. Of course, I don’t know the circumstances from which you are writing, but please know that I and so many others have been there and there is hope. It sucks right now. Life is not supposed to be this hard and it is not fair that you have been dealt such an awful hand. I don’t know you, but I truly believe that you are strong and you will get through this.
                -Alex

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